Recently there were a couple of companion articles at different blogs that give excellent insight into what submission and leadership are NOT.

10 Things Submission is Not
10 Things Leadership is Not
Though reading both brief articles would be a help, below are the 10 points from each article.

10 Things that Submission is Not
1. Simply or singularly a marriage issue
2. Degrading
3. Silent
4. Fearful
5. Joyless
6. Stifling
7. Dumb
8. Weak
9. Automatic
10. Self-Focused

10 Things that Leadership is Not
1. Simply or singularly a man’s issue
2. Elevating
3. Loud
4. Prideful
5. A call to be master
6. Limiting
7. Mindless
8. Weakening
9. Autonomous
10. Self-Focused